Hey folks, It’s been a while since I’ve posted. I’ve been dealing with some personal issues. A lot has been happening, but I’ve been having trouble with motivation. That probably has to do with the fact that I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder. I think it’s got a lot to do with my religious upbringing, among other things. I have been on medication for the last month and it seems to be helping. I finally get to meet with my therapist for the first time tomorrow. Hopefully she will help me start working on some of my issues. This is a big step for me.
Among other things going on…
I got to go to the launch party for Ryan Bell’s new initiative, Life After God. I took my wife (who is still a christian) and she did the most amazing thing. When Ryan asked for people to give their opinions on what the movement should focus on, she got up in front of a bunch of atheists and said that she thinks there needs to be more support for people coming out of religion who are still married to religious spouses. That blew me away! I was really having doubts about our relationship until that moment. Sure, there are still things we need to work through, but that’s coming along.
Neil Carter of Godless in Dixie was there and he took a few moments to speak with me and my wife. He is such an amazing person for caring enough to take the time to give us some advice and try to help us out. I cannot say enough how thankful I am. He recommended we read the book In Faith and In Doubt together. We have started reading it and making notes. Amazing stuff! I really think this is going to start some conversations that will improve our relationship and help us for the long run.
There were several other people I met who made a tremendous impact on me. Cass Midgley of the podcast Everyone’s Agnostic spent some time talking with us. What a great guy. He offered to have us on the podcast, but I haven’t contacted him as of yet. I may do that as soon as I am finished writing this post.
We also met one of the guests that Cass had on his show, Hugh Mann. He has a great story to tell that shows just how difficult it is to be a nonbeliever in the general area I live in. What a great guy!
Another great thing that happened just this Saturday was a conversation with my little sister. She is the one who is no longer a oneness pentecostal, but she is still very christian and very conservative. Recently she asked me how church was and I told her that I hadn’t been going. Well, this last Saturday while talking to her she asked whether I was an atheist or an agnostic or what. I came out and told her point blank that I was both. To my surprise she said she loves me anyway and she doesn’t want this to mess up our relationship. She also made a comment that makes me think that my dad will be OK with my non-belief as well, but that is another conversation I will have to have later.
The last thing I’d like to mention is that I received David Silverman’s new book, Fighting God: An Atheist Manifesto for a Religious World. I read it in about two days (in my free time) and I can now say, “I get it!” I understand why he seems so confrontational. It’s all about equality. If you are a closeted atheist, or any stripe of nonbeliever, you should seriously consider reading this book. He talks about the reasons American Atheists do what they do and how it helps all of us who are nonreligious. As a result of reading this book, I joined American Atheists, and I have some advocacy plans (tentative) for the Freethinkers Meet-Up group I fellowship with. I haven’t discussed it with them yet, but I think they will be on board.
That’s what’s been going on with me. Sorry for taking so long to post. I think I’m back on the uphill.